stay-at-home wife

Ah, to be in a long distance relationship...I almost forgot what it was like! I have to say, I don't know how we did it for so long. Brian just finished his annual month-long pilgrimage in Miami, and I was super ready for him to come home! I tried to really relish a few things in his absence, including getting more sleep, having the car at my disposal (since normally we share), and working as much as I need to (without being tempted to throw in the towel to go hang out with him). As you can see, the list is short and not too distinguished. The truth is, he's a great husband and my life never feels restrained with him in it, so it doesn't really feel "free-er" when he's gone. The good thing is, he had a complete blast in Miami. Audiences loved the show he was a part of and he got to go to the beach, play poker, go fishing, rent a motorcycle and drive down the keys (JEALOUS) and see lots of cool shows/bands/etc. All while getting paid. It's a pretty good gig :)

Despite a few moments when I thought this long-distance thing was not my cup of tea anymore, I've had some really fun things interspersed to keep me distracted! My big excursion was to Austin for Rachel & Justin's wedding...such a sweet event! They wrote their own vows (including vows to his daughter) and I basically cried through the whole ceremony, awesome. Let's also note that Rachel looked amazing as well and they danced all night - very picturesque.

Sadly the weekend was really short, but I got to see everyone who was in town and squeezed in a lot of QT with the girls during the 48 hours I was there. The weather was perfectamundo and made me miss Tejas hard. Every meal I had was outdoors except for the actual wedding dinner (but the apps were outdoors!) which is pretty amazing.

loved enjoying the warm breeze on the porch 

with Megan in my old 'hood (on my old bench!)

Sno Beach with Amy & Matt...So. Delicious.

I have to say, I'm just so torn every time I go back. There's just this feeling I get when I'm there...and I've overanalyzed the crap out of it to no avail...but I think because I grew up there when I was little and now I associate the city strongly with my dad, it just feels so right. Then again, every time I visit it feels tinier. Chicago is SO BIG, and to a fault at times, but there's an incredible energy that comes with that. There are so many cool things that go on, at all times. Plus it's strange to run into people you know. I don't know, I just really like the hustle and bustle and am not sure how it would feel to go back to feeling like you know everyone. The cities are so different and they're impossible to compare! But in a few months we'll re-sign our lease here, so I guess no formal comparison is needed just yet :)

late night with the ladies at Sidebar - hugs!

the joy of skiing 3

Tahoe
For our third skiing trip, we used a timeshare that Brian's parents have—one of those where you have a certain amount of credit and can apply it to any of the places they have. We've never been able to use it so we didn't know what to expect, but it was a fantastic experience! Our place was right next to a lift, it was exactly as advertised (no surprises), and the staff helped us get adjoining rooms so our whole crew could be together. We planned the trip with our friends Jess & Ryan (from our wedding), and then Eric & Chrissy (also from our wedding) decided to squeeze in a spring skiing trip and jumped on our bandwagon too! Again, such a great group. Chrissy is probably the only person I would allow to snuggle in bed with me and Brian and then make me hold hands with her...she's special :) And when I discovered that our 2 bedrooms were divided by an oversized jacuzzi with "doors" as walls...I knew Chrissy would violate me while I was showering...which she did.

the famous jacuzzi (with Jess & Ryan in the background)

lunch in town

 taking a break at Sierra - such intense skiing (for me) there!

We had some crazy skiing there! On our first day at Heavenly, high winds shut down a ton of lifts, so we were stuck with about 5 short runs and a terrain park all day. Which means I learned how to go on baby jumps :) I had SO much fun learning to catch air, although I can't imagine I'd get too crazy doing this in "everyday" skiing. On our second day, we drove to another mountain nearby called Sierra and spent the day there. The blues there were basically blue-blacks, and then I went ahead and accidentally skiied a black (thinking it was a green...ah, faded signs...) so I guess I can check that off the list. Then on our third day, I had my most favorite day of skiing ever! Jess, Chrissy, & I skiied together while the guys went off and did crazy shit. We got a huge storm so the first part of the day was freezing but so snowy! It was like skiing on marshmallows! And there were also a lot of lumps so I did get to practice my new attempts at taking little jumps (such a joke, really). Then in the middle of the day the storm passed and we got blue skies, fresh powder, and quiet long runs. So so beautiful. And then squeezing in some great conversation on the lifts was awesome too. We finished the day back at the terrain park! I think the whole trip really helped me really push myself to improve, and Brian learned that I can improve on my own without his constant encouragement :)

After such a fun season and so much time on the mountain, I'm sad that we have to wait until next season to go back. I love that so many of our good friends are fun to ski with, and I know there are more of you out there! Let's go!

a break from the storm back at Heavenly

an amazing view of Nevada!

my annual guinness

Today really creeped up on me - I've been so wrapped up in work and other things that need to be posted about, that what would've been my dad's 64th birthday is suddenly here. I'm giving this year's gift to the Hill Country Aeromodelers, which is a conspicuous way of saying Big Kids Group. These guys operate out of south Austin and meet every few weeks to fly their homemade radio controlled planes, which is so my dad.

I loved this club because it reminded me of my dad when we lived in our house in Austin (until I was 7). We had a second story to the house that was just one unairconditioned, light-filled, treehouse of a room that he used exclusively to build model things....planes, trains, cars, whatever. He painted them too, so the room always smelled of a really intense lacquer. I loved it. When I was older, he took me several times to the Fry's parking lot (you heard me) because they held weekly remote-control car races. And he always loved all things aviation, from his real plane to flying kites in Zilker Park. Actually I just found this email he sent a few years ago:

I'm scanning in family pics and found this one of your great granddaddy
(and your grandaddy) and his airplane from 1967 probably taken by me.
Thanks to the registration number visible and Google - I just got off the
phone with the 73 year old man in Peoria Illinois who now owns it and he is
very interested in getting scans of the pics I have of it and your great
granddaddy's pilot's license, etc.  He is going to send me current pictures
of it.  He's very active in aviation and edits the newsletter for his local
airplane club.  I'll show you the other pics when you are here.
-Genealogy Pops

P.S. That means I now live near this plane, which basically makes me want to buy it.

Then my dad and the guy who owns the plane had a super nerd-out exchange that ended up in the local aviation newsletter - what what!

Pretty cute, right? So anyway, it's safe to say he would dig this club.

Sip a Guinness today for Ed!

the joy of skiing 2

Snowstar
Last month while Brian was working, I went to Kim's hometown in Western Illinois with some of our friends to visit the local ski hill. And let's be clear that when I say hill, I actually mean hill. It was great for me though because every time I ski with Brian...God bless him but he pushes me pretty hard...so this time I could ski on my own terms! Since there was really anything to "push" toward (the steepest run was like 200 feet of what would equate to a Colorado blue), I spent a lot of time just working on my skillz. That's right. The kind with a Z.

Kim, Mark, Jackson, Abbey, Jay & me

matching $3 walmart hats - there was no saying no

Kim's family farm (rather, corn field)...so pretty

She and Mark get married here in September!

check out that gnarly run in the background

this was Jay's first time snowboarding but he'd already bought a matching jacket & pants, boots, and a snowboard. good thing he liked it.

Notably, we also went tubing, which was my first time! Tubing is I guess like sledding, but since I haven't really done that either, I can't be sure. They had a huge hill with four lanes, and you could innertube down by yourself or tie your tube together with a few others. Holy crap. This was reminiscent of my ridiculous happiness on the slip 'n slide, just with more screams and a side of tears (from laughing so hard). Actually I caused some 8-year-old to ask one of my friends "What's wrong with that girl?" to which they naturally answered "Oh, she's from Texas." Cool.

the joy of skiing 1

After going through a skiing dry spell, we got to do a ton of it this year, and I loved it! Back in the fall we planned a trip to Tahoe for March, and after that, two other impromptu opportunities presented themselves...when it rains it pours (when it snows it storms?)! I've split them into 3 posts because they each obviously deserve their own.

Breckenridge
I found out in early December that I'd have some downtime work and also that I'd lose my vacation days at the end of the month. While talking to Amy about my new conundrum (all this time, what to do?!), she said we should jump in on her and Matt's trip to Breckenridge! Since we already had bought tickets to go to Texas on Southwest, it was super easy and cheap to change our return flight to go through Colorado. Bada bing, bada boom!

Brian and I flew out the day after Christmas and stayed two nights in a mountain lodge just outside of town. (Sidenote: The lodge was paid for by a "ham check" that our company gives every employee at Christmas, which is to be used to do something nice for/with your family. Pretty awesome, right?). When Amy arrived a few days later, we moved our stuff to Matt's family's ski-in / ski-out condo, where we had a full house of FUN: us, Amy & Matt, another great couple, and Matt's sister.

The snow situation was just short of awful, BUT the general awesomeness of being in the mountains and having our group gel together so well made up for it. We skiied for three days, played games, showed the hot tub who was boss, went out at night, and most notably took over a karaoke bar (with Matt's mom in tow). Such a great trip, and totally unplanned!!!

cute lodge lobby

we all got reindeer names too, obvi

I think I've given Brian is my love for karaoke

the whole group!

The trip also led to a few conversations about what it'd be like if we lived in Colorado. I think Denver would be pretty sweet - still urban, but close enough to ski frequently. Brian is a major proponent of the mountain towns though, because he knows the reality of living 1.5 hours from the slopes (in Denver) is juuuuust far enough to make it a chore to go skiing often. So if the ultimate purpose is to have our kids growing up in the outdoors and enjoying what the mountains really have to offer, maybe the best way to do that is probably by living at the foot of an actual slope. We will continue to disagree on this.

a real, live show

For anyone who doesn't know Brian, he's an "ideas man." As in, has multiple composition notebooks full of story plots, commercial ideas, jokes, inventions, etc. I'm more of an execution kind of person, so the only thing I ever "jot down" is a grocery list. The whole thing totally baffles me, but it's awesome to witness.

So anyway, over a year ago, he came up with the idea of doing a live performance in the style of a late-night talk show. Think Conan O'Brien for a live audience (no TV). He had a certain person in mind to host, a guy named Kevin who is an amazing musician (drummed on all of Andrew Bird's albums) but is also a really witty, endearing, interesting person in general. They decided the guests would be really fascinating—not necessarily well-known—people who can teach the audience something new or just straight up entertain them.

Brian and Kevin worked out the vision, format, content ideas, and were both super enthusiastic but after a while, life sort of got in the way and the project lost momentum. (This is the only problem with being an ideas person). Fast forward to a few months ago when a girl in the theater circle caught wind of the concept. She loved it and sensed that they needed a project manager to get on board and make it happen, so she did. She started spreading the word, booked a space, started talking to potential guests, and assembled an arsenal of writers to work on Kevin's monologues. This girl is my hero!!!!

So with an official team in place, we officially have the show up and running! (I deleted the name because it was showing up in Google searches and I didn't want people to land on my blog accidentally). The first show was 3 weeks ago, and it will be performed once a month until "people stop having fun" (solid long-term vision, ha). I didn't like the title at first but it's really grown on me...mostly since Brian told me they wouldn't be making any overt references to periods. They've also secured a great loft space for performances that happens to be sponsored by Hendrick's Gin, so admission and drinks are both free. You heard me!

There are so many talented people on the roster, it's incredible. We have professionals all pitching in pro bono to handle their area of expertise, including everything from lighting to video to design to a band to writers who all graduated from Second City, whaaaaat. I feel un-funny just standing near them. The only reason I get to play in the sandbox with them is because I'm handling the social media side of things...but I'll take it!

It's hard to believe that we're already gearing up for our second show (March 19). The first one was a huge success! There were definitely kinks in the armor, but we walked away with some great learnings to help make changes next time. The guests were really fun too - I just edited together some footage for our Facebook page (which you can find through mine), so check it out, and "like" the page if you want to follow along as the show evolves!

prepping the audio

the house band

guest / comedian

more guests, who host their own game show. cool, right?

It's been super exciting to be involved with a production like this, but even more so, it's so gratifying to see one of Brian's ideas come to fruition. He's put in so much work, not only on the ideas side, but on the production side too. I'm like a proud mama bear! I also love that the intention isn't to necessarily grow the show into something specific, which will allow it to develop out of the talent and inspiration that all the different people involved will bring to the table. Now I just need to update my artsy-hipster wardrobe looks like so I won't stand out like a sore thumb around all these cool people :)

opening day

Yesterday was Opening Day on the tennis courts for me & Brian! The weather is going crazy around here in the best way. Not that it's anything big compared to places further south, but the fact that it's in the 60s and 70s this week is too good to be true! (Seriously, is it true...). Normally it'd be highs in the 30s and 40s, which means last year we abandoned tennis from November to late May. But not this (freak) year!

For the record, Brian won 9 games to 7 (didn't play a full match). I'm only writing that here so that I'll have full permission to report on my own wins later! I never should've taught him how to play...